Rx Prescription 75% Awareness 25% Change or Adjustment
Marriage or Divorce or something of that nature. It is truly hard for someone to go through 1 divorce, let alone going through it more than 2 or 3 times. My experience with this has by no means, been an easy one the second time around. I thought that the first one was going to be just like the second one.
Dead Wrong! First one happened about more than 22 years ago, I was barely 26 years old and when I got married – it was 2o years of me. Time has changed and the way people has approached the ” I am getting married ! ! ! ” scene. For one, some have gone through the pre-nuptial agreement which was technically initiated by couples with large amount of savings, investments, assests, liquid or whatever else there is to consider of monetary nature.
And now, I find it not unfortunate but devasting since I had to go through this second divorce, at the age of my early 40′s/ considering that I was blessed with a good relationship with my first separation, this second one did not by all means, come easier but actually, traumatic at some point.
It is past now, and we have both moved on ( me and my ex-wife2). The children are slowly adjusting with the right communication and rearing, I believe that they are smarter now these days and they fully understand their parent’s strong points and as well as their weaknesses. So, to cut everything short, I will believe this until the day I leave the earth, that one day, when it is my time – I will depart on our God’s will and to the point that when we depart, it will be like the same way we arrived. With nothing.
But it does not end there, I truly hope – and I know that I am so capable of loving that maybe, just maybe, there is someone I know for awhile who will understand me and love me for the way I am now. Not for the way I was yesterday or will be in the future. It is all about now!
So, to be able to have a wonderful relationship is to make sure that we place a strong emphasis on mindfulness. And I know, deep in my heart, that awareness and change are 2 of the most important factors of seeing a couple who is deeply and truly in love.
